After all Patrick is way too ugly for you: Cheating Faith Mutema 'comforted' I just watched the video posted by your husband Patrick with much sadness in my heart. I want you to know that I am writing this open letter to you as a woman who has been shamed and publicly humiliated by a sister in law who was supposed to protect me. Darling Faith, your husband taking a video of you crying begging for forgiveness then posting it on social media, including your private WhatsApp messages shows that this man is evil to the core, not only is he ugly outside, he's also very ugly inside and he never loved you dear. Please take it from a woman who has walked this road.

My blog is not only about fighting spiritual and sexual abuse, my blog is about fighting emotional and domestic abuse too and enlightening my readers on the issues surrounding all forms of abuse facing women especially in the African society. Often in Zimbabwe, when a woman marries a man, unfortunately she marries his mother and sisters too, the entire clan. Its so bad that the mother and sister at times will even have a say on what happens on the matrimonial bed. I am writing this because I am talking from experience. Its a culture that's rotten to the core, and I hate it!  I have also found that its not as common in other African societies, Zimbabwe seems to have the biggest problem regarding this issue. Zimbabwe seems to be extremely harsh on women within the society.  

Faith dear, read the book of John, there was a woman caught in the very act of adultery. She was brought to Christ so that they would stone her. But Christ said he who was without sin should cast the first stone. Everyone fled, and there was not even one person left to condemn her. Why, because they were worse off sinners than her. Christ told the poor woman that he did not even condemn her, but she should go and sin no more. Faith dear, I am telling you today that JESUS CHRIST DOES NOT CONDEMN YOU either. I saw your tears and shame, you repented and its over. God remembers your sin no more. You said sorry to your husband, he chose not to forgive you but to divorce you publicly and humiliate you. The man is pure evil. No man with a good heart does that to the mother of his children. The bible says even Joseph was a good man. Do you know why Faith, because he chose to put away Mary privately when he thought she had committed adultery. The bible specifically says Joseph did not want to publicly humiliate his wife! A man who does that has a wicked heart.

Now Faith, I pray you read this letter. You were shamed on social media, I am supporting you on social media! I want you to dry those tears, girl you have cried enough. Stop crying, and find it within yourself to fight back. God is close to the broken hearted, and He is moved by your tears. Faith darling, do you know that the tears of a woman forsaken are so powerful that they move the heart of God? Heaven literally stopped when you cried like that. God loves women, and He hates it when His Princesses are treated like dirt. In the video you said you wanted to die. You said you would rather die. No darling, no humiliation is worth you taking your life, and no man is worth you taking your life either. You have three beautiful babies who adore you. Be strong for them. You do not need a man to define who you are or to bring you happiness. You can find inner piece and happiness within yourself.

God can turn this tragedy and public humiliation into a triumph okay. Yes its a man's world darling, I get it. I know so. Your husband Patrick is a well known serial womanizer, but that okay, forget him. We as women live in a man's world. But as women, God has given us the power to turn mockery into victory. Thats something men can never do. When a man falls, hes fallen, he can never rise from that. But we women are so different. God has a soft spot for us. Thats why Jesus Christ ONLY ever ministered to women with pasts. Women who were publicly humiliated by society. Thats why there are only five women mentioned in Mathew's genealogy of Christ. Among those women is Rahab the harlot. Faith darling, did you know that Rahab the harlot is today one of the most powerful women to ever be used by God in the bible. She is a hero of faith, and the only woman to be mentioned on the hall of faith in Hebrews 11. God turned a prostitute into a powerful spiritual woman who became a wife and mother in her own right. And her husband was blessed to have Rahab as wife, she was actually a virtuous woman.

Please take it from me Faith, firstly that Patrick guy is way too ugly for you darling you are too damn pretty for him. Where on earth did you pick him Faith, he's as ugly as hell. Not only is he a total loser who doesn't know how to make you feel good, hes also a douche bag, an ugly one for that! Secondly you are way too strong a woman for his family too, they are all a bunch of baboons, trust me I am talking from experience. Faith, being publicly put away by your husband is probably the best thing to ever happen to you. If you are smart enough, and I think you are and stay in your prayer closet, this will work out for your own good. Trust me.

Right now stay away from men, that lover boy of yours is no good for you either. He too doesn't love you. Purify yourself, get close to God, smile, be happy, look after your children, stay with the people who love you, get your hair and nails done, watch a movie (I recommend Think Like A Man), stay positive and you will be just fine. I know its hard, but you can do it. Right now you are very vulnerable, and men can take advantage of you easily. So you need to stay clear off men, and find yourself, and be strong. Trust me darling, God will give you a husband in the fullness of time. A husband who will not put you away, okay. A husband who will adore you, and worship the ground you walk on. A husband with a family who will love you and treat you like a daughter.  A husband who will redeem you and take away your reproach. A husband who will not deny you. You will be the one saying, "not tonight babe I have so much work to do."

If you ever read this Faith, contact me personally via email and I will give you ideas and help you on how you can turn this saga for your own good and move on with your life. By the way you looked absolutely stunning in the video, even when you cry you still pretty, and the dress you were wearing was just ace, you see you have a good fashion sense, and I personally think that horrible tete of yours is just jealous of you, she's probably challenged in the looks department by the sounds of it. On a positive note Faith,  at least you were given your token of divorce (gupuro) by that tete woman face to face,  mine was given over the phone by some  woman called Lucy Mukucha Musuka who then threatened to burn my house down in the process. All because I reported Walter Masocha to the police. At least no one is threatening to kill you hun. Stay strong and keep your head high, weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.

Yours truly from experience

Jean Gasho (Now based in UK)

 




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shungu
0 # shungu 2014-12-18 10:55
I really liked certain sections of your letter of comfort to Faith. Listen woman, your still bitter about your own experiences. You have judged Patrick so negatively that I wonder whether we read different Bibles. Mine says that thou shalt not judge. You cannot apply the word to bolster your argument and then use the devil to take from that word. What right have you to slap Patrick with all those bad words? Are you perfect? Saka wakarambirwei?
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mynameis
0 # mynameis 2015-01-14 04:22
:-)
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Gumbura
+1 # Gumbura 2014-12-18 10:56
Blambi haina akanyangara kumeso otherwise machinda atinoziva angadai achitopona nebonyaz! Kana une mari hapana ugly! Nekuvakadziwo ndizvozv; pamwe pacho unotoona blaz vasvinu vachitofamba vakabatana ne"Tarisa kuno tichingamidze" yemukadzi! Dai mai Mahofa richingori virgin nanhasi! Mari ndiyo inotonga!
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naidoo
+1 # naidoo 2014-12-18 11:02
yho!yho!YHO! i personally liked the Joseph part. sure he thought mary had committed adultery, but he did not want to humiliate her either.....imag ine if Mary was married to this patrick guy kkkkkkkk would be having a second bible!
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tatenda
-1 # tatenda 2014-12-18 11:15
Kushata rakashata zvaro Patrick ungati igudo riri mubako,iro dumbu ungati rine diabetes nxaaaaaa,risiye iwe Faith zibwa iro risinganyare!
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kachasu
-1 # kachasu 2014-12-18 11:25
SO hure what are you saying.you are promoting chihure chako.even in the bible, a woman should only be divorced kana wamubata achihura iwe woti zvakanaka.akadi i kuudza mirume wake kuti handisi kuguta pane kunohura bull shit.kill that bastard
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Bee
+1 # Bee 2014-12-18 13:59
Quoting kachasu:
SO hure what are you saying.you are promoting chihure chako.even in the bible, a woman should only be divorced kana wamubata achihura iwe woti zvakanaka.akadii kuudza mirume wake kuti handisi kuguta pane kunohura bull shit.kill that bastard

As far as I am concerned, she said Patrick publicly humiliating Faith was bad. Get your facts right. After all, Patrick ihure wo but Faith did not stoop so low into showcasing his womanising ways
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wiseman
+2 # wiseman 2014-12-18 11:48
You are rushing to blame Patrick but you do not have even a single iorta of evidence over your allegations.Wha t Faith did was totally wrong and the same bible you are quoting is the same bible that allows man to divorce only because of adultery.In as much as we do not condone publication of such stories,this lady was wrong because u can not tel your husband that you are tired when you had sex with another guy.Yes the guy may be yugly as others suggest but remember the two consented and am sure they did not force to marry each other.On the other hand l blame man for starving their wives and lack real love for their wives,u find tht someone is a polygamist and comes home at 4 am what do you think will happen to your wives
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Selele
+3 # Selele 2014-12-18 12:01
Staff Reporter hameno yamakateya. Handichataura zvakawanda otherwise you chuck me out of myzim family.
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Staff Reporter
+1 # Staff Reporter 2014-12-18 13:52
Quoting Selele:
Staff Reporter hameno yamakateya. Handichataura zvakawanda otherwise you chuck me out of myzim family.


Kwaaaaa, don't worry my friend. We hardly chuck people out. Can't even remember the last time I blocked anyone here, maybe early this year or last year. I cant even remember. And in most cases we don't even go through these comments coz anenge akawandisa. So nyora hako uchisupporter Patrick, iniwo ndosupporter Feyi wedu kuti zvibhalanse. :D
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selele
+1 # selele 2014-12-18 15:20
Quoting Staff Reporter:
Kwaaaaa, don't worry my friend. We hardly chuck people out. Can't even remember the last time I blocked anyone here, maybe early this year or last year. I cant even remember. And in most cases we don't even go through these comments coz anenge akawandisa. So nyora hako uchisupporter Patrick, iniwo ndosupporter Feyi wedu kuti zvibhalanse. :D

Feyi uyu munenge makamuhwandira imi. Kubva manyora zvakawanda kudaro. Saka akakutendai nekukupfekedzai condom tozoti chii?? :lol: :lol: Kungoda kuziva sekuti munonyora semunhu anezvaari kutsvaga pakati pemakumbo aFeyi uyu.
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Staff Reporter
0 # Staff Reporter 2014-12-18 19:23
lol haa maya, it wouldn't be a good idea kupihwa makumbo naFeyi coz phone yake inoleakisa info. ask Tonde if you think im lying. but as media tinomhanya nedzirikufaya nguva iyoyo. anyway rega ndinyore yerimwe hure rakabatwa richicheater muharare zvekare
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selele
0 # selele 2014-12-19 11:11
Quoting Staff Reporter:
lol haa maya, it wouldn't be a good idea kupihwa makumbo naFeyi coz phone yake inoleakisa info. ask Tonde if you think im lying. but as media tinomhanya nedzirikufaya nguva iyoyo. anyway rega ndinyore yerimwe hure rakabatwa richicheater muharare zvekare

tipei tinzwe :lol:
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john
+1 # john 2014-12-18 12:11
this woman was never humiliated. imagine if you were David, because of aldultery you killed her husband and your story is written in the bible for people to read for millions and millions of years to come who you say the Lord has humiliated you. compare social media to the bible
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JoeAfrica
0 # JoeAfrica 2014-12-18 12:16
Team Faith.What drove her to have a boyfriend?
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Selele
-1 # Selele 2014-12-18 12:51
Quoting JoeAfrica:
Team Faith.What drove her to have a boyfriend?

After all what has been written, all these comments and even videos you tell me you still ask this question??
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TSANO
+2 # TSANO 2014-12-18 13:25
PFAMBI DZAVE KUSIMBISANA!!!!
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Chemical Solution
+1 # Chemical Solution 2014-12-18 13:50
Jean Gosho you are a SENATOR of all whores I, have heard off.I was lost when I thought this FAITh is the most whore to hear of as she paid a man for her to be fucked but you, you are number of all mahures.Better you delete your post very fast.
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TSANO
+1 # TSANO 2014-12-18 13:53
kana munyori mapedza kutaura zvekushata kweface, ngatichitaurai zvekushata kwemabasa
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big sam
0 # big sam 2014-12-18 15:13
hure ihure nomatter what colour- faith is wrong, Inga tete vakati hapana time vainzwa nyaya yake yekuhura. vakatoti wakatadza nei kuuya pa budidriro. saka Patrick haana mhosva. mahure ano sapotana heya nhai kkkk
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Bee
0 # Bee 2014-12-18 15:37
Quoting big sam:
hure ihure nomatter what colour- faith is wrong, Inga tete vakati hapana time vainzwa nyaya yake yekuhura. vakatoti wakatadza nei kuuya pa budidriro. saka Patrick haana mhosva. mahure ano sapotana heya nhai kkkk

Just like mahure echirume support each other. Chanetsa chii apa Big Sam. Support Patrick, we support our fellow women. Deal with it!
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BIG BIG
0 # BIG BIG 2014-12-24 10:29
mukadzi ukahura unorambwa. murume akahura ikete. ndochokwadi chiripo.
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Chemical Solution
+1 # Chemical Solution 2014-12-18 15:45
Kushata kwaPatrick its the work of God but kuhura kuita kwaSATAN.So Patrick haana mhosva sezvo chiri chivezwa chaMwari, as kana mavakuti Mwari akakanganisa kusika Patrick. Pasi ne chihure.
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Fatso
0 # Fatso 2014-12-18 15:59
Staff Reporter after reading yo fine article,it sound like u are just using Faith's issue to bring out your bitterness.this article is all about u..bt the story u are using to justify wht happend to u is wrong....u dont cheat just bcos u can lean on the Sorry word.....if Faith was not geting what she wanted from her husbnd the best was to walk out of the marriage.
And please note dont mis quote the Bible..Faith need to seek forgvness from God not from his husbnd...saying sorry to her husbnd does not mean she is saying it from the heart.we read story of women cheating more than once after being 4given by their husbnds.
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GODISKIND
0 # GODISKIND 2014-12-18 16:13
"After all Patrick is way too ugly for you,"-this phrase of yours says it all that you are a PURE-FALSE-CHRI STIAN.You are contradicting christian teachings-Genes is 1:26 and James 3:9.

King James Version (KJV) New International Version (NIV)
8 He saith unto them , Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 8 Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.
9 And I say unto you , Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery : and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

LORD JESUS CHRIST died for all of us before we even existed...I strongly believe that God love sinners and hates sin.
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Chemical Solution
0 # Chemical Solution 2014-12-18 16:30
Holman Christian Standard Bible
they will bring the woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city will stone her to death. For she has committed an outrage in Israel by being promiscuous in her father's house. You must purge the evil from you."Comparison with Patrick's family which had shown such mercy than those who kill as per Deuteronomy 22:21 verson. Who is better here?
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Chemical Solution
0 # Chemical Solution 2014-12-18 16:39
Leviticus 21:9
"'If a priest's daughter defiles herself by becoming a prostitute, she disgraces her father; she must be burned in the fire.

Marriage Violations
…21then they shall bring out the girl to the doorway of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death because she has committed an act of folly in Israel by playing the harlot in her father's house; thus you shall purge the evil from among you. 22"If a man is found lying with a married woman, then both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman; thus you shall purge the evil from Israel. 23"If there is a girl who is a virgin engaged to a man, and another man finds her in the city and lies with her,…
So don't call Patrick names, God loves men and women the same, so Jean Gasho stop lying to people that Faith's tears have touched God's sympath.
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selele
0 # selele 2014-12-18 18:44
Quoting Chemical Solution:
Leviticus 21:9
"'If a priest's daughter defiles herself by becoming a prostitute, she disgraces her father; she must be burned in the fire.

Marriage Violations
…21then they shall bring out the girl to the doorway of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death because she has committed an act of folly in Israel by playing the harlot in her father's house; thus you shall purge the evil from among you. 22"If a man is found lying with a married woman, then both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman; thus you shall purge the evil from Israel. 23"If there is a girl who is a virgin engaged to a man, and another man finds her in the city and lies with her,…
So don't call Patrick names, God loves men and women the same, so Jean Gasho stop lying to people that Faith's tears have touched God's sympath.

If all christians followed this garbage there wouldn't be any one of them still alive.
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private
0 # private 2014-12-18 17:11
Jean Gasho I am so shocked by this article, who are you supposed to be sympathizing with here, the victim or the villain?? I am sure you were also humiliated for being promiscuous? You are a waste to say the least, try and get a life
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selele
0 # selele 2014-12-18 18:46
zvekuroorana kudzvinyirirana chete.. The only good thing about marriages is security for kids and reliable company. Otherwise every marriage is like a prison.
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plato
0 # plato 2014-12-18 21:24
the real person here with a problem is myzimbabwe not these league of prostitutes.... myzimbabwe has defended her evil acts from the word go....no wonder there is no hope for our children anymore, these are the standards that the media create for us....makes one wonder if democracy is realy practical for africa....srew u myzimbabwe.
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Thandaza
0 # Thandaza 2014-12-18 22:12
Zvakuvava nekuti zvave kwababa Sauti hanti? How many tyms have men cheated and got away with it? Nhasi asvirirwa chikeke akuti mavara azarevhu....... . Pedzezvo ofukura hapwa? Come on........ Aisafanira kunyadzisa this lady chero hazvo akacheater... And futi hz ugly this your Patrick....FACT !
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Chemical Solution
0 # Chemical Solution 2014-12-19 07:45
who said Patrick is a womaniser? Was he caught? It's said steal but don't be caught.So Faith stole and has been caught so she has to endure all showers of words.
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zvazviri
0 # zvazviri 2014-12-19 08:17
don't support faith coz she deserves it.hanti ndozvaaida so she must face it
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Ndezvashe
+1 # Ndezvashe 2014-12-19 12:41
Hapana nyaya apa, problem chete Faith akazopusawo zvekubatwa na Patrick. Patrick wacho anotohura kudarika Faith wake ari kukwirwa ne one guy. Patrick ari kungohura sevarume vese vemu Zimbabwe, "hands up vasingahure", 10% if not less. Varume takajaidzwa kufunga kuti zvedu chete ndizvo zvakanaka and we have the freedom to do as we please (SIC). You would be surprised to realise kuti tete vakato tambidza gupuro vanotokwirisa kudarika muroora wavakasvitsa gupuro, dont worry umwe nemumwe ane nguva yake yazvichadhuuka, only zva Faith zvakatangawo. Good life Zimbos, chihure chiriko, muri kuhura, muchahura kusvika hameno as long as varume musinga gutse vakadzi venyu muchimhanyira kunze, zva Faith zvicharamba zviripo
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God loves us deep
0 # God loves us deep 2015-01-06 11:48
Egos,finding solutions to our problems our problems ,my people shall perish cause of lack of knowledge even with the bible at ur disposal we still will perish because we ndt consult the one who said the words in the bible we quote.Its not for me to say who is wrong ,was it done the right way be4 i talk to my creator and get advice from my creator.All we need to knw is God loves us so much ,he wants us to go to heaven when we belieave that we should be in a position to sought this mess without sending some1 to hell whilst on earth cause as long as we on earth we have the opportunity to go to heaven,not by works but by grace if we bow down and ask for forgiveness.Jes us died for every sin murder ,adultery ,cheating and all,we dint ask for it he just did it so we will be saved.The devil knows tht but dosent want to always knw tht he wants us to believe we are not all sinners by refocusing ur attention just today everyone has sinned like faith in Gods eyes but Satan will make sure u ndt knw.Nw wht am i saying both have sinned we all have fallen short of glory ,i knw we not of the same spirit right nw so some may not understand but bottom line lets talk to Jesus be4 we touch tht bible,lets talk to jesus be4 we pass judgements,lets talk to jesus women when men wrong u,same applys to men and Remember as long we here on earth we still have a chance no matter wht wrong we have done GOD Loves us regardless ndt get distratected whts done is done and go to ur knees and ask for forgiveness both of them and everyone cause God loves u and created u in his own image ,Have a blessed 2015 in the arms of the lord for he is the only constant in our lives
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