‘Lula lula affair with my best friend’s husband ended in tears’

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Dear Aunty Lisa

I have been in an unhappy, loveless marriage for a long time. As a result of this, a couple of years ago I had an affair with a close friend’s husband.

I had always felt there was a connection between us and after one drunken night we had the courage to explore if there was anything more. He told me he loved me and that I was his soulmate. But he claimed that his marriage was a happy one and that he also loved his wife.

I didn’t enter this relationship with the intention of stealing him, I just wanted to see where it would lead, but I fell harder than I imagined. He told me that I completed him and that he can never get over me. We had sweet lula lula countless times. But when I started expecting more from the relationship he ended things.

I know I am in the wrong for having gone down this path, but is he more wrong than me? I would have left my husband for him. I went the extra mile because he kept feeding me lies and I believed them. I don’t know how to get over this betrayal of sorts. I have turned into a shell of a person who has her guard up all the time.

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