Dear Aunty Lisa
This is a disgusting thing to say, but I hate having se_x with my husband.
I know it’s wrong for me to even think about this, but the truth is it always feels forced. I know he enjoys it, because he never has a problem, but I am always left feeling unfulfilled because it feels like a chore rather than a pleasurable task.
I want it to change, because I really love him a lot and it’s not like I am attracted to someone else or even thinking of someone else while having se_x with him, but I don’t know what to do or how to mention it to him without hurting his feelings. He’s a great guy so I feel guilty about this. What can I do to make it more pleasurable for me?