Dear Aunty Lisa
My immediate boss is a married man, and recently told me he had feelings for me when we were at a company offsite.
I rejected his advances and I thought he was drunk but, since that event, he has been very rude to me at work.
He rejects my ideas, often in front of other people, and doesn’t even smile when I greet him. I haven’t done anything wrong, so I don’t know what he is punishing me for.
If he feels as if I have rejected his advances, he should be ashamed of himself for even having that conversation with me in the first place.
I can’t even speak to my HR manager because I have no proof. What should I do? This is making it very difficult for me to function at the office, and is stressing me a lot.
I feel as if I am being blamed for no fault of my own. Please help.