My boyfriend has an unhealthy attachment to his ex-girlfriend that I can’t understand.
He says he loves me, and wants us to take our relationship to the next level. At the same time, he visits her whenever possible and rushes to her house whenever she calls him.
This has happened too often for it to be normal. I am trying not to be jealous about it, but I find it strange that she continues to have such a hold over his life. When I ask him about it, and why he continues to run to her, he tells me that I am just being jealous, but how can I commit to him when it’s obvious he still has feelings for someone else?
Should I ask him to choose between her and me and just decide once and for all, instead of putting me through this all the time? I think he’s being unfair to me.