Dear Aunty Lisa
I have a huge problem with my wife. We got married a year ago, two years after we got engaged.
She has changed completely after marriage. She hides things from me. When we used to go out earlier, for instance, we would both be open to paying. Now, she refuses and insists that I pay for everything.
She lied about her salary and I found out only after I saw her salary slip. Earlier, she used to care about me. Now, she treats me like I am nothing. She has even begun bitching about my family to her friends and relatives.
I have given so much to this relationship, but she ignores me. We have birthdays in the same week and, instead of spending time with me, she booked a flight to her mother's place without even checking with me.
I am really tired of her and want to end this. She doesn't even recognise her mistakes and abuses me instead. Please help me out.