Dear Aunty Lisa
I have been in a relationship with a girl for past two years.
I’ve been very much in love with her and I didn’t want to let her go. Everything was fine until yesterday evening. I got to know that she is no longer a vir_gin. I asked her about it and she said her ex-boyfriend did it and that she immediately broke up with him after that incident.
I know many of you will think “pfee, get over it” and all that, but really, I think there’s a psychological thing which I think us men have with stuff like this.
I think the problem with her not being a vir_gin is the fact that I just can’t stop thinking about the fact that someone else has ‘spoilt’ her.
Initially, I acted strong in front of her, but now I wonder if my family will accept her when they get to know the truth.
Moreover, I don’t know how I should accept her. I am becoming weak and cannot handle that my girlfriend is not a vir_gin.
I have always wanted to marry a vir_gin. Should I dump her now or just continue having se_x with her while looking for another vir_gin to get married to.
Some words of advice/wisdom would be greatly appreciated.