Dear Aunty Lisa
My girlfriend has left me for another guy after I sponsored her college education when her dad died.
We were supposed to get married end of this year.
Hell, however, broke loose on her graduation day after I clashed with another man who turned out to be a secret lover she had been in a relationship with.
I went to celebrate her big day after two years of struggling to raise her fees, only to discover that she had all along been ‘playing’ me.
I learnt that she had told her friends I am her brother whenever I came visiting. I have chosen to remain a senior bachelor.
I'm devastated, I didn't see it coming (even if I should have) and I adored her.
I've started doing no contact and am willing to give her the space she wants. It's tough though and it hurts a lot. We were each other's first serious relationship and we never had any real problems before it went south.
I have compromising images of her that she has sent me via whatsapp that I am considering leaking on social media. I am ashamed of these thoughts and anticipate you being appalled by them in your response – but I want revenge.
Advice me please. What should I do? I am cofused. Thanks