ADVICE: I paid tuition fees for my girlfriend at college but she dumped me after graduation – I want revenge


Dear Aunty Lisa

My girlfriend has left me for another guy after I sponsored her college education when her dad died.

We were supposed to get married end of this year.

Hell, however, broke loose on her graduation day after I clashed with another man who turned out to be a secret lover she had been in a relationship with.

I went to celebrate her big day after two years of struggling to raise her fees, only to discover that she had all along been ‘playing’ me.

I learnt that she had told her friends I am her brother whenever I came visiting. I have chosen to remain a senior bachelor.

I'm devastated, I didn't see it coming (even if I should have) and I adored her.

I've started doing no contact and am willing to give her the space she wants. It's tough though and it hurts a lot. We were each other's first serious relationship and we never had any real problems before it went south.

I have compromising images of her that she has sent me via whatsapp that I am considering leaking on social media. I am ashamed of these thoughts and anticipate you being appalled by them in your response – but I want revenge.

Advice me please. What should I do? I am cofused. Thanks

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