Dear Aunty Lisa
I am a 27-year-old man and really love my girlfriend, who is 22.
The problem is she no longer wants to use a condom when we have sex. She claims it’s better without it so we can get the real feeling.
She is now accusing me of cheating on her with other women, she’s saying a faithful man wouldn’t mind.
I’m not ready to father a child. What do I do to convince her?