My boyfriend caught me masturbating — Help!

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Dear Aunty Lisa

About six months ago, my boyfriend of three years came home early from work and caught me playing with myself in bed.

I thought at the time I hid it quite well until he confronted me about it later in the night.

He told me I had completely lost his trust and he asked me not to do it again. What he doesn't know is that I am a frequent toucher and love the feeling, but I am too ashamed to tell him this.

Ever since this happened, he tells me it's 90 percent of what he thinks about and can't trust me alone.

I don't want to be the bad guy — after all, most of my friends do it, so I feel horrible for doing something that's "healthy."

I love him to death, but this has torn us apart and I have given up doing it, but it's not enough. How can I make him see my view?

After all, all I really wanted was to know myself so he could too.


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