Hi Aunty Lisa
I’m 17 and I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. We recently began having sex a couple of months ago, and it has been very difficult for me to get birth control for many reasons.
I have asked my boyfriend to use condoms for now until I can get pills. We had sex, and I reminded him to put on a condom, which he did right away.
But then, at some point, he…took the condom off? He did not ask me if he could, and I obviously would have said no, considering I explicitly asked him to put one on initially.
Immediately afterwards (meaning, after he came), he apologized, because I think he could tell I was bothered by it. He said he thought I knew that he was taking it off and apologized, saying that he was just stressed and didn’t know if he’d have been able to finish with the condom on.
I need some advice. Should I sue him?