Dear Aunty Lisa
Me and my best friend grew up together. We lived next door to each other up until we both went away to university.
I was out celebrating my cousin’s birthday with her when I saw my best friend’s husband all tucked in the corner of the room with another woman, and they were going at it regardless of the fact that they were in a room full of people.
Even though me and my friend are very close, we’re practically sisters, I have seen plenty of friendships ruined when you cross the line and step into your friends’ relationship because they often seem to think you’re coming from a negative place and think that you should mind your business, (especially women who feel like they have a really good thing going).
I feel stuck between a rock and hard place because I don’t want her thinking that she is with a man that is committed to her when I know otherwise. But, I also don’t wanna risk our friendship because a lot of people would feel like it’s not my place to say anything because it’s their relationship and has nothing to do with me.
My other issue is what if she was to find out he was cheating and that I knew about it and said nothing? I would feel like a terrible friend. So, I am really torn about this.