Dear Aunty Lisa
My wife spends more time on her phone than with me. These days I feel like I am competing for her attention with the phone.
Before she got a smartphone, we had many good times and memories together. Now all she seems to care about is chatting on some strange women groups and I really don’t know who else.
Sometimes it seems as if she is chatting with men but when I ask her she says she is following things on some chat groups she belongs to.
I feel bad because she seems to be addicted to chatting and I feel that we are losing our intimacy because of this. She never shares her phone password. Keeps it under a password. It is bothering me very much.
I want her attention back and at the same time I don’t want to seem insecure or manipulative.