Dear Aunty Lisa
I am 23 years old and my boyfriend of six months is 32. He is loving, caring and always there for me.
We both seem happy, but the problem is we have different goals at the moment. While he wants marriage and children, I do not think I am ready.
And although he seems to respect my decision, I know he is not because when he came to see me recently, I suspect he played around with the condom.
I have been trying to make him confess, but he just tells me I need to trust him. I am still confused on whether to tell him that I know what he did, or I should just wait until he confesses.
I am afraid though that he might try to do it again. Please advise me.