Hello Aunty Lisa
I am 40 years old, and I am a mother of 3 children. My children are from three different fathers. When I was growing up, I didn't think that I would have children for different men. My mother had three of us, and all of us have got one father. Although she never got married, she and my father lived together.
My father had another woman, but he would never admit it. My mother helps me with my children. The fathers of my children were not all good to me, but I refused to take them to court. One was shot dead by thieves in South Africa.
I have a man in my life who is a good man. He helps me a lot. I came to live with him a year ago, but I have a constant embarrassing problem, and I would like your advice. Sometimes when we are having sex, my vagina makes noises like I am passing wind. Sometimes I try to keep my legs close together, but my boyfriend keeps slapping me and telling me to open up.
My boyfriend says I should not be embarrassed, but I would like to know what I can do to stop my private parts from making noise.