Dear Aunty Lisa
I am 44 years old and I am having a problem. I got married when I was 20 years of age. My husband and I were in business.
He loved me so much. We worked hard. He got ill and died. I had to carry on the business alone. He was 10 years older than me. His relatives never helped me.
When he died, his relatives said that I killed him to get what he had. This man made a will and gave me everything.
Now they want to fight me for everything. When he died, nobody gave me anything to help with the burial. I had to stand the cost but I did without making a fuss.
My biggest problem now is that I have a gentleman coming around. This man is helping me run the business smoothly and he stays with me to protect me.
Now the relatives of my late partner are saying that I have brought a man into their relative’s house, and that is not right. They are threatening to take over my business by force.
What should I do?