Dear Aunty Lisa
I met this guy a few months ago and we hit it off and started dating soon after. I thought he was a little obsessed with his ex-girlfriend though, because he kept talking about her a lot.
It didn’t bother me initially because I assumed he was just opening up and wanted to vent about what went wrong.
A few weeks ago, I found out that he had been stalking his ex though. She put up a message on Facebook asking him to stop, and I saw it because he responded to that post and it cropped up on my timeline.
I confronted him about this and he laughed it off, saying that she was just exaggerating things.
I am not so sure though, because I really do think he hasn’t moved on from that relationship. He still talks about her when we go out on dates and changing the topic doesn’t make a difference either.
What should I do about this? I don’t even feel like going out with him these days because every conversation deteriorates into a discussion about his earlier relationship.