Dear Aunty Lisa
I have been seeing someone for two years now and our parents know about our relationship.
It seems as if my guy is serious about me, too. However, based on what I know of him, I feel as if he is still not over his ex.
She cheated on him, even though he was serious about her. I know he is still in touch with her. It troubles me that she still has a hold over him, even though he lives in South Africa.
I am really confused about this. I like the security this relationship gives me, but still feel as if we are not compatible and this makes me very upset.
I am not sure how and what I should do to make things better.