Hi Aunty Lisa
My relationship with my boyfriend has been on and off for the past two years.
This has a lot to do with this behaviour, because he usually gets drunk and does or says things that cause serious damage.
He says nasty things about my family, my personal habits, and even my career. When he apologises the next morning, things get back to normal for a while, until he gets drunk again.
He is not an alcoholic, but his behaviour is what prevents me from wanting to take this to the next level. I just don’t trust him enough. We had a huge fight this weekend because he said something extremely hurtful again, and I haven’t spoken to him since.
I am thinking of ending it this time, because enough is enough. He has been apologising constantly since then and says he will change this time.
Should I give him one last chance?