My boyfriend doesn’t want to spend time with me — Help!


Dear Aunty Lisa

I have been in a relationship for about a year now. He hardly makes time for me and, whenever I talk to him about anything that is bothering me, he makes sure to end the conversation by blaming me.

It always boils down to him asking me to change. I have no idea what I have to change about myself because, no matter how difficult he is, I always give him time, space and love.

I never get any of it back. He has lied to me several times and doesn’t share anything about his life with me. I can’t trust him anymore.

He thinks only about himself and never wants to talk and resolve things. He is only happy with the physical aspect of our relationship.

Am I overthinking this? I am done giving him chances. He doesn’t even give me basic love and care.

Should I just walk out of this mess and be happy on my own?

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