Dear Aunty Lisa
I have been in a relationship for about a year now. He hardly makes time for me and, whenever I talk to him about anything that is bothering me, he makes sure to end the conversation by blaming me.
It always boils down to him asking me to change. I have no idea what I have to change about myself because, no matter how difficult he is, I always give him time, space and love.
I never get any of it back. He has lied to me several times and doesn’t share anything about his life with me. I can’t trust him anymore.
He thinks only about himself and never wants to talk and resolve things. He is only happy with the physical aspect of our relationship.
Am I overthinking this? I am done giving him chances. He doesn’t even give me basic love and care.
Should I just walk out of this mess and be happy on my own?