Dear Aunty Lisa
I must congratulate you on the wonderful work that you are doing. I am a young man who recently got married. My wife is now pregnant, but things are not going well for us. The relationship is rocky. After a few weeks of marriage, my wife told me that she was not feeling me anymore. She admitted that she didn’t marry me because of love, but for other reasons.
I suspect that the child my wife is carrying is not mine. I have asked her many times if I got her pregnant, but she refuses to answer. I discussed the matter with my pastor, and he asked me if she had another man in her life, and I said no. He said that I should accept the child until I can prove that it is not mine.
I see myself being used because I could have married another woman who was genuine, but she was older than I am, and I never wanted an older woman to be my wife.
I am asking you for your advice.