Hie Aunty Lisa
I am a regular reader of your column. I am in a very confusing situation. I am stuck between two men. Seven years ago, I cheated on my babyfather because he wasn't treating me well.
The man I cheated on him with lives in South Africa. He comes to visit me often. I fell in love with him because he treats me well and respects me. He even loves my son very much.
The problem I am having is, I am in love with both men and the one living in South Africa asked me to marry him.
I don't know what to tell him, because, apart from me loving both men, my babyfather has changed and is treating me better now.
The South African based man knows about my babyfather, but I'm having a problem deciding who I must stay with.