Dear Aunty Lisa
I am 20 years old, and I must ask you, as an aunt, if drugs can turn young people on to having se_x. My girlfriend is 22 years old, and she smokes weed. Every time she is around me and she smokes, she wants us to have se_x.
Even if I don’t want to do it, she overpowers me and forces me, and I know that she is not behaving as if she is normal. Sometimes she becomes loud. I have my own room at my grandmother’s house, and sometimes when she comes, my grandmother knows she is there. My grandmother does not say anything because she likes her. But when she smokes, she can behave in a violent manner.
Aunty, right now, I am worried because she came to the house and was smoking. I had a draw or two, but I fell asleep because I was tired. In the middle of the night, she woke me up and told me that I must do my duty. I told her that we were out of cond0ms, but she cursed and said that nothing was going to happen. I had se_x with her. When I discharged, she still wanted more. Now she is saying that she missed her period.
I don’t know what to do. But I am not ready to be a father, and she is not ready to be a mother either because she is still in training. I told her that she should get some help because she is addicted to drugs, but she can’t see that.
Some of my friends told me that some women love to smoke before they have se_x because it helps them. I know my girlfriend is like that because I have seen it. Do you know if that is really true?