Dear Aunty Lisa
I am writing to you for your advice. I will be 35 next month. I have five children for four different men. The last two children are for the man who is living with me. He is a good man, but he has caused one of my sisters not to be talking to me because he was her boyfriend and I got mixed up with him. He was always secretly giving me money because he always liked me. My sister knew we were friends, but didn’t think anything of it.
One day he came to the house and asked for my sister. He said he had been trying to call her on her cell phone but the calls weren’t getting through. He sat down. My children were not there, so the both of us were there alone. He started to tell me that my sister is giving him some trouble and he wanted to know if she was having an affair. I told him there wasn’t anything going on. He asked why is it my sister can’t be like me, because I am so easy-going and not fussy.
I told him that I was having lots of problems because I can’t even give my children what I want to give them. I asked him to give me some money and he agreed but he wanted se_x. I told him no way, but I changed my mind and asked him when he wanted it; he said right away. I went to the bathroom and took a shower and told him that he could come into my room. He told me he didn’t have a cond0m, but he wouldn’t discharge in me.
As soon as he entered me, he discharged. He didn’t even have time to pull out. He apologised to me. It was not even a minute that his peni_s was in me. A couple of weeks after, I missed my period and I called him and told him. He told me not to throw away his seed, so I carried the baby. He was the one who told my sister that I was pre_gnant for him and from that day, my sister hardly talks to me.
She told me that she hates me, but she would not leave her boyfriend. They are still along. She refuses to leave him, and he still gives her whatever she wants.
The situation in the family is not pretty. Nobody outside the family had to know that my two last children are his. My sister has been telling people that I took away her man. I feel guilty. We always got along before her boyfriend and I got involved.