Dear Aunty Lisa
I really need your help on this matter. I will be 17 years old soon. I have a boyfriend whose birthday will be on March 30; so you see, we have something in common.
He is much older than I. I am so much in love with this guy, but my family doesn't like him because they say he cannot help me in any way, except to give me se_x.
He doesn't give me money, but I don't care. I know he has his eight children to care for. He has a job. I went to his workplace one day and we had se_x and since then, I have to hide and go there at nights; but I have stopped.
It's not about the sex. He is very understanding, and we spend hours on the phone at nights and in the day.
I am sure that it's me alone he has because we are always talking. I love this guy. It started out as a family talk, as he is my cousin, but now we are lovers and I don't plan to leave him.
My mother beats me if anyone tells her anything about him and me. I am going to run away and live with him when he comes back from Botswana. He is going away soon.
Aunty, please tell me what to do because you are my only help. I am so in love with my cousin and I can't help it.