Dear Aunty Lisa
I’m a Heathen and have grown up in a conservative family. I want to marry a Christian girl who I love so much.
She is the most amazing soul I have ever met. I want to marry her but knowing her se_xual past keeps bothering me.
She is a very good woman and I really don’t want to leave her, but a thought keeps on coming in to my mind that she is a non-virgin which really makes me feel low.
I don’t want to think about this and want to accept the way she is but thoughts keep hitting my head. I need help. How can I get rid of this problem?