Dear Aunty Lisa
My man and I became friends five years ago. He was never married and he was kind of wild.
He has five children with five different women, but he is a hard worker, and he supported his children. None of the women has ever taken him to court.
He is 50, and none of his children are living with him.
Now, we are living together and one thing I can say about him is that he takes care of the home. I don’t have to tell him twice about what I need.
The big problem we are having is so difficult for me to talk about. I have a daughter who is 18 and she is living with us. They get along well. This man has a son who is 23.
I noticed that he was coming to the house often and talking to his father. I did not see any funny movements with my daughter and him.
They greet each other, but he spends most of his time talking to his father and then he leaves.
Well, Aunty, to cut a long story short, my daughter is three months’ pregnant for the man’s son. The doctor has confirmed that she is pregnant.
When I heard that she was pregnant, I held my belly and bawled because that was not something I expected from her. She told me that it was the only one time they had sex.
Aunty, I don’t know what to do. People are going to say it is this man who got her pregnant and not his son.
My daughter knows how I have been struggling and that this man is like a gift to me. I can’t tell when last I was hungry. If I could find a place to send her, I would.
I have started to go to church and he is coming with me. We want to straighten out our lives, but look what has happened.
Aunty, give me your best advice.