Dear Aunty Lisa
I have had a sugar daddy for the past two years. He is divorced but still lives with his ex-wife. They have three kids together, aged 21, 18, and 5. I’ve never had a problem with being his sugar baby because I’m trying my hardest with school, but I got pregnant by him and he REALLY wants me to keep it and so do I.
His ex-wife found out and kicked him out so he’s been staying with me and we got a very nice house together. I have a Mercedes, etc. Well, his ex harrasses me — tells me to kill my baby, etc. My sugar daddy doesn’t defend me and he sneaks off and hangs out with his kids and ex-wife all weekend and ignores me and then comes home expecting me to forgive him and be OK with it, and now tonight he didn’t come home and he’s at her house, which I know because I drove by. What do I do?
I really want to keep my baby, but I don’t want to be a single mother. I’m so scared. I’m barely 20.
I’ve been going crazy on him yelling, screaming, crying, and he just doesn’t seem to care. Before all this happnened we had the best relationship. He’s always been there. Do you think his ex is using the 5-year-old daughter to keep him or what? I just don’t get it. My mom said I should act like I don’t care and he’ll come back to me.
— Sugar Baby