Hi Aunty Lisa
This is the second time I am writing to you and I hope that you can help me. I am 22 years old and I have a problem. I have a boyfriend who is 26 years old. He caught me enjoying sεx with his best friend. I went to the river to wash. His friend came by and was helping me to wash the sheets. Some other people were there, but they didn’t have a lot of things to wash. They washed, spread their things out to dry, and some bathe and left.
This guy and I were the only ones around. I must say that he always liked me, and I liked him too. When my boyfriend was away, we fooled around a little, but it was not a permanent thing. He would come by the house, and we took our chances. When I was going to the river, I told my boyfriend, and he said he had to go to the country to help one of his friends because his car had broken down there. He was going down there to see if he could get the car repaired and travel back with his friend. He told me he wouldn’t be back until in the night.
This other guy was helping me to wash. When we were finished and we spread out all the clothes, we walked up to a little area where there were some trees. We started to fool around each other. We were sure that we looked around and didn’t see anybody. But my boyfriend came by and did not make himself visible. He saw my slippers, so he knew that I was around. He walked up and spotted the guy and I having sεx underneath the trees by the riverside.
He called out to both of us. He started cursing and told the guy that he was having sεx with his woman. He held on to the guy’s pants, and I had to beg both of them to behave. I told my boyfriend that it was not the guy’s fault, it was mine. I started to cry. That is when he let him go. My boyfriend had a long knife in his hand.
Aunty, I am going to tell you the truth, I always liked the guy. If I need help and my boyfriend doesn’t have it and I ask him, he gives it to me. I was so nervous and confused. When I was trying to separate them, I forgot to put on my underwear. I went home without underwear. I am now three months prεgnant, and it is for this guy because my boyfriend and I have not had sεx since he caught me with the other guy.
My relationship with my boyfriend is finished. I have ruined my life. This guy told me that we can get married. Do you think that I should accept his proposal? This is my first child.