Dear Aunty Lisa
I have seen where you have helped many people. I hope that you can help me too.
I have a boyfriend and I am pregnant for him at the moment. He is married but separated from his wife.
He is not divorced. His wife is living in Botswana. When I met him, he told me he does not want her again.
I got into this man and he got into me and got me pregnant. When I broke the news to him he began to change.
He often says that he cannot meet me because he is busy, among many other excuses.
He is saying to me his wife wants him back and that he wants to try the marriage again, and that when he gets to Botswana he would divorce her and come back and marry me.
All this left me shocked. I fear becoming a single mother. At the same time, I do not want to abort my baby. I am stressed and I feel stuck.
Aunty, what do you think about that? Please help!