Dear Aunty Lisa
I would like your opinion. I have three brothers and one of them has a girlfriend. My brother loves her so much, but this girl was never satisfied with having one man. She used to always go out, and she got pregnant. She told my brother that he was the one who got her pregnant. I told him not to accept that child because she had other guys including Chinese nationals. My other brothers told him the same thing, but he told us that he believed the child was his.
They rented a place and moved in together. My brother went abroad, but he is supporting his child. The child doesn’t look like him or anyone of us. And we know that she is still going with other men. We can prove that. I went to her house recently, and while I was there, a Chinese man came to see her, and when he saw me, he said he did not know that she had company. He said he was just passing through and she told him to call her whenever he was coming.
My brother is not listening. The child is three years old now and my brother is planning to come to Zimbabwe and marry her. I know he is making a big mistake. What advice do you have, Aunty?