Dear Aunty Lisa
I am a university student that needs some serious advice. Firstly, I was ditched by my first boyfriend but I managed to move on.
I have been going out with this rich guy who drives a Bentley supercar for ten months now and he is everything I need in a person. He is very cute and filthy rich. He owns some supermarkets in Harare and Bulawayo.
The problem is that he is married and has a son. However, when we first started out, he never mentioned that he was married, but only mentioned that he had a girlfriend and a child.
I discovered it later on, after I had fallen head over heels in love with him. I asked him about it because I saw the ring on his finger and that caused me to become curious, and he denied it.
Aunty, I became really hurt and confused and I tried several times to break it off with him but he always insists, and the feelings keep coming back.
This man shows me so much love during my bad times, and that’s what keeps me going.
The other part to the story is that every time we are together, he gets in the mood for se_x and I always try to control the feelings.
Unfortunately, I went to see him just so we could talk and he actually held me down and took se_x. After everything, I asked why he did it, and his reply was that he was waiting for a long time and I was tempting him.
Now, I am seeking your advice due to the fact that se_x was involved and I have strong feelings for this man. I am confused.