Dear Aunty Lisa
I am a 15-year-old girl. I am in secondary school. I read Ask Aunty column daily. Sometimes, as girls, at school we talk about the things we read in your column.
My mother talks to me about lula lula (se_x) all the time. My mother does so more than my aunt. My parents feel that children my age and those in high school should abstain from se_x.
I have never had se_x, but some of my friends have had se_x. And sometimes, they talk as if I am missing something that is great and nice.
One of my friends had se_x and got preg_nant when she was 16 and she is having a difficult time. Some of us went to see her after she gave birth to the baby.
She said that we should make sure we use protection if we are going to have lula lula. The guy who got her preg_nant says it is not his child, but she is not making a fuss about it.
Her father will know how to deal with him.
Our friend told us that she got preg_nant the first time she had se_x. I was surprised. I did not know that a girl could get preg_nant the first time she had se_x.
She was a virg_in all along. Do you think she is telling the truth?