Dear Aunty Lisa
I hope you are well. I am a 25-year-old Christian woman. My husband is also a Christian. He is 27. I started to have se_x when I was 18. All my boyfriends were over 40. I had three of them. They treated me well and with respect. One of them was a coloured man. He was the last man in my life. We broke up because his company sent him back to Australia.
When I met my husband, I asked him if he could wait and not have se_x until we got married. He said yes, so we never had se_x.
We ki_ssed a lot. When he ki_ssed me, I experienced 0rgasms. Now that we are married, I have found my husband to be aggressive in bed. He is not doing f0replay. He doesn’t believe in it. Sometimes when we’re done having se_x, I am bruised. Please tell me what to do because I am tired of argueing with him.