Dear Aunty Lisa
I enjoy reading your column and I have learned a lot and you have kept us informed and entertained. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 30, but I am not enjoying the relationship. He is the slowest man I have ever had in my life. I had a man who was older than him and this man took care of his body because I was able to feel him. He was not my own fully, he was ‘borrowed goods’. His girlfriend came back to Zimbabwe and married him, and now he is gone.
This man that I am with can only give me money, but I need more than that. He is stupid. I pretend that I love him but I don’t. I have another boyfriend right now with him.
This other boyfriend has a night job so he is at home during the day. Sometimes I go to his house and spend most of the day with him. I cook and clean for him while he is sleeping, during which time my daughter is at school.
After I have se_x with him I feel perfectly all right because he knows what he is doing. He has a big and curved peni_s. Then, after I pick up my daughter from school, I go home. I make this man dinner. Sometimes I don’t want him to touch me, but if he does, I pretend as if I am ready for him.
There is nothing that I want that he does not give me. But having se_x with him is not nice, and to get him to stop sometimes when he is going too long, I pretend as if I climaxed. This man has a very pen_is.
My boyfriend that I meet during the day doesn’t want me to leave him because he is planning to go away and I am younger than he is. He gives me money but not as much as the man whom I am living with.