‘My girlfriend told me that she is not a vir_gin, it’s bothering me. Should I find someone new?’


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OK, so my future girlfriend and I have known each other for years, and I had a crush on her. I didn’t know until recently she did too but for those years we knew each other it was just cool. I told her how I felt about her, and we started talking even more. I asked her if she was a vir_gin and sadly her reply was “no.” I didn’t see that coming at all. Like she’s just so perfect.

I am kind of upset and a little angry, but I mean people make mistakes. But then I asked her why she did it and she told me. Then I asked her if she regrets it and her answer was: “No, not really. Well, sometimes.” That’s the really disturbing part.

We’re both Christians. We met and grew up in church. I didn’t know that Christians do things like that! I’m just sad and don’t really know what to do anymore. I would forgive her, but I guess she doesn’t need forgiveness because she doesn’t regret it. I’m really sad because I thought I found a woman that would be the last woman I ever love, but I guess it’s too good to be true. So what should I do? I mean should I be upset. Would I ever forget? I don’t want to just leave our relationship there. I really love her. She’s everything to me. Uhgg

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