Dear Aunty Lisa
I am so confused that I need help in solving this situation. I would appreciate it if you can reply as soon as possible.
I am in love with this man for one and half years now. We both decided to go back to church and become committed to God.
We live together. I would say he treats me well, apart from that fact that if I don’t ask him for money, I don’t get it. Is that a red flag?
He loves se_x too much. He wants se_x every night and sulks when I don’t agree.Whenever we are to talk about marriage, he avoids the topic or dances around it.
I am confused, Aunty. I don’t want to force him to do anything. How do I know if he really loves and wants to marry me?
I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t want to wait forever for him either. What do you think I should do? I really need your advice.