Hie Aunty Lisa
When I was 14 years old, a man in our neighbourhood had se_x with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn’t fall preg_nant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating throughout my university days.
I met my boyfriend in December 2018. He’s a very good man and very financially stable. Somehow I told him I was still a virg_in when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn’t want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagi_na and we had se_x. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.
The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there’s a secret between us. We’ve done the necessary intro. I don’t know what to think anymore. Our wedding is in April. Should I let him continue believing he’s the only man I’ve slept with? Should I tell him the truth?