Dear Aunty Lisa
Please accept greetings for yourself and your staff. Three weeks ago, I was travelling to Bulawayo in Zupco bus and I struck up a conversation with a woman who was sitting alone. She said she was going to visit her brother and his wife. I gave her my phone number and took hers. At about 10p.m., she called me and we talked. I thought my wife was sleeping. When I was finished talking to her, my wife asked me who was the person I had to lie to her.
The next day, I called her and we decided to meet. I did not tell her I was married. After a few days, we went out again and we had se_x. My wife read some text messages she sent me and found out that I had se_x with this woman. Now, my marriage is in trouble. She called the woman and asked her if I did tell her that I was married, and she said no.
My wife has moved out of the bedroom and told me that she would not have se_x with me again until I take an AIDS test. I told her that I used a cond0m, but she is not listening to me at all. She wants me to tell her everything that I did with this woman. If I were to tell her, I am afraid she will leave me because I have never had oral se_x with my wife. I had it with this woman and I liked it. We also had yekedero se_x.
My wife is still sleeping in the children’s room and I am sleeping by myself. I can’t stand what she is doing.
Do you think I should do an AIDS test?