Dear Aunty Lisa
I have two boyfriends, and they have no clue I’m dating the other one. I love both of them, but what should I do? I really need the advice.
Personality-wise, one is everything I want – financial stability, fun, silly and intellectual. We clicked from the start. However, the se_x has been odd, stilted and a bit awkward. I am attracted to him, love kissi_ng him, but the chemistry isn’t there. I am wondering if it’s nerves and might get better. He mentioned his ex didn’t have a high se_x drive and they were in an almost se_xless relationship, so he could be “out of practice”.
The other guy, who I’m seeing more on the side, has a very big peni_s and is really good in bed. There’s an intense se_xual chemistry between us, very primal and instinctive. He comes around and we jump into bed.
I’m trying to go with my head and focus on the first guy, because this could be a relationship with legs. At the same time, when he’s not there, I can’t help reaching for my phone and asking the other to come around. I don’t want a relationship with him – at least I think I don’t. But the se_x is so good. I think I know how to resolve this – cut out the “se_x” guy – but it’s easier said than done. Give me some advice aunty. Who do I choose?