Dear Aunty Lisa
I’ve been dating this man for about two and a half months now, and I ended up losing my virg_inity to him but I didn’t bleed like my friends told me I would. I had the tiniest spot of blood on my pa_nties when I got home that night..
We’ve had se_x thrice now and I have never bled. The going has been good, but he’s under the impression that he wasn’t my first even though I told him well otherwise, and he was shocked when I’d originally told him I was still a virg_in.
I’m 24 years old and I’m no idiot about se_x– very well-read and informed girl here!– but I was definitely a stranger to it before him, which he thinks is a lie.
It’s really bothering me that he refuses to believe me and has even said he doesn’t know what he can trust about me, especially with the virg_inity. I don’t think he would have cared whatsoever if I wasn’t a virg_in, but he really was my first! Why can’t he just believe me?