Dear Aunty Lisa
I am 18 and my boyfriend is 28. He is very good to me. He gives me everything I ask for. When I met him, I told my mother about him, and my mother told me she wanted to know him.
My mother got preg_nant with me when she was 15, and she always told me that I should try not to make men use me and get me preg_nant like my father did to her.
My father cannot read, but my mother can. My mother said that she was fat, and when she got preg_nant, people told my gogo to report him to the police. But my mother threatened to run away because she loved my father so much.
But my father heard that my gogo was going to report him, so he disappeared, but his relatives used to give my mother money, but it was never enough.
I told my boyfriend everything my mother told me, so I took him to meet my mother, and my mother loves him. During holidays, I stay with my boyfriend. I have to do my school work. He is very strict about that.
I wanted to be a flight attendant. People tell me that I have a good personality, but I am thinking of trying something else. I like to entertain, but my boyfriend does not want me to go into that business.
My boyfriend’s mother doesn’t like me. She told my boyfriend that I am a schoolgirl and that he should not be having a relationship with a schoolgirl. He cursed a few bad words at me and told me to get out of his business.
I don’t want to lose my man. My mother told me it is better to be an old man’s darling than a young man’s slave. What should I do?