Dear Aunty Lisa
My husband was married for five years and got a divorce before he met me. We dated for a year and a half before deciding to marry.
This is my first marriage and we have been together for around seven months now. The problem I have involves his ex-wife, whom he is still in touch with.
She calls him whenever she has some problem, and even asks him for money as a loan. I don’t say anything about this because it is between them alone, but I think she has a negative influence on him, and he can’t see it because he used to be married to her. I don’t want this to affect our future together but can’t figure out how to say this to my husband without him thinking that I am just being jealous.
How do I deal with this?