Dear Aunty Lisa
I am married to my husband for twelve years. Two months ago, I discovered my husband’s secret marriage which was done three years back and I totally had no idea about it. Hubby has been cheating me these three years and telling me there was no other woman in his life.
I have huge pain in my heart. I can’t digest his second marriage. Every time I think how fool I was to believe him and trust him I curse myself. I can’t stop crying. My life is never going to be the same again. I am heart broken. I am shocked.
I married him by love and now he has cheated me. I can’t forget and forgive him in my heart. I can’t accept this truth that there is another wife in his life.
I am the mother of our four kids. I am of course concerned about them but what I do with my feeling? I don’t think I can get along with this situation. I am so disappointed. I am burning inside. He calls it jealous but I am really dying inside.
Please help me. What shall I do? I can’t force him to divorce her and I can’t live with him with her. I love my kids too much and I have tried my best but I swear I can’t take it anymore.