Dear Aunty Lisa
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year. We’re both in university. We started saying ‘I love you’ a few months ago and we’ve had the most magical year falling in love and getting to know each other. He’s met my parents and I’ve met his. In my mind I was setting up a life for us together.
Unfortunately, he dumped me last week because I turned down his se_xual advances. I am a virg_in and he’s not. He told me that he’s had se_x with 2 girls only. He told his best friend that he broke up with me because I refused to have se_x with him. I really love him and I’m starting to think that I should go back to him so that we can be back together again. At first I was really mad, but now I really miss him. Should I have se_x with him? Or would that be a bad decision?