Dear Aunty Lisa
I am a 24-year-old woman and just had se_x for the first time yesterday (Africa Day).
I pretended to enjoy it but it was uncomfortable – I just wanted it to be over, and was relieved that it didn’t go on too long. My boyfriend eja_culated very fast.
I now feel disgusted and ashamed. I don’t want to try it again, but I don’t know how to tell the guy this.
We haven’t been dating long, so I feel like it would be best to break it off. I feel sick at the thought of ever having se_x again. Is it normal to feel like this?