Dear Aunty Lisa
I and Mikayla* got together two years ago. She was in a stable marriage with my boss. I wish that we hadn’t got involved because Mikayla has now become emotionally dependent on me.
Every time there is any drama in her life, she expects me to get her back onto an even keel. I have tried to break up with her, but she threatens to expose our affair to her husband. She has also threatened to take her own life. I feel trapped.
What should I do?
NB: * not her real name