Dear Aunty Lisa
I HAD se_x with my husband’s best friend last year because I was so bored with our relationship. It caused havoc but now I’m tempted to stray again, even though I’m preg_nant.
I discovered I am expecting after I’d cheated with my husband’s mate. But I know it is my husband’s baby as my lover and I always used protection.
This guy and I had always been flirty and the affair began when he came round one day when my husband was at work late.
It lasted three months before I ended it. I felt so guilty about cheating that I broke down one night and confessed everything.
My husband was devastated but decided to stay with me and has now forgiven me. He is 35 and I am 33. We have been together almost twelve years. We have two children who are nine and six.
We have been working on our relationship, but he decided he cannot see his best friend any more.
My husband is overjoyed about my preg_nancy and we are both looking forward to the birth.
But I have been getting close to a guy at work and lately I have really been struggling with the fact that I want to sleep with him.
The urge to do this is so powerful it overwhelms me at times. I know my colleague would jump at the chance to have se_x with me, too.
I don’t want to cheat. My husband would not cope and I know he would not forgive me a second time.
I would rather end our relationship before moving on this time but my fear is the impact our splitting up would have on our children and the new baby.
My colleague makes me so happy. He’s 28 and single. I love talking to him and spending time with him. I just don’t know what to do.