Dear Aunty Lisa
He is twice my age, very charming, funny and good-looking.
I think about having se_x with him the whole time.
The problem is we are both married and have children.
I am 24 and he is 45. I head up his social media team and work very closely with him.
It’s obvious there is an attraction between us.
I have never felt anything like it before.
No subject is off-limits and we have even spoken about what turns us on.
He told me he enjoys open-air se_x and I confided that I would love to be blindfolded.
When we talk, sometimes I can hardly catch my breath.
I don’t want to be unfaithful but my se_x life with my husband is dull – we only ever do it on a Saturday night and when we do, it lasts about three minutes.
How can I get over these strong urges I have without having se_x with my boss? Do I need to get a new job?