PLEASE HELP: My boyfriend keeps checking my phone

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Dear Aunty Lisa

I’M in a relationship with a guy who always checks my phone. He says that it’s because his baby mama cheated on him.

How do I make him see that he’ll lose me if he doesn’t stop his behaviour?



Trust is one of the most important elements that one needs in a relationship. Most people do get discouraged to trust others because of their past experiences.

This happens if the person has not completely healed from what hurt them. Mistreating your partner because of the history that they were not part of is unfair.

You should not allow yourself to be treated like you don’t matter.

Be clear about your feelings to your partner and let him take the responsibility to deal with issues. All the best!

Yours sincerely

Aunty Lisa

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